In Honor and Memory of My Father and Teacher Leonard Konigsburg

On April 29, 2007 (11 Iyyar 5767) my father and my teacher, Leonard Konigsburg went to claim his portion in Olam Habah. I dedicate these lessons to my father who was an inspriation in my life and through his gentle teachings became the founder of the Konigsburg Rabbinic Dynasty.

Monday, November 14, 2005

HMS Volume 2: Number 8 - Mitzvah #8 & 9: To Wear Tephillin

Halacha L’Moshe MiSinai
Volume 2: Number 8
November 14, 2005
Mitzvah #8 & 9: To Wear Tephillin

Mitzvah 8 & 9
It is a positive commandment to bind tephillin on your arm
It is a positive commandment to put tephillin on your head
Hafetz Hayim: Scripture states, “And you shall bind them for a sign upon your hand and they shall be for frontlets between your eyes.” (Deut. 6:8) The place to put tephillin on your arm is on the biceps, at the raised part. The place to put the head tephillin is at the spot where an infant’s skull is soft. The boxes contain parchments of scripture that speak of accepting the yoke of the kingship of heaven. In the head tephillin there are four compartments with a parchment in each compartment. In the hand tephillin, there is one compartment and all four verses are on one parchment in that box. Wearing tephillin requires a clean body. Wearing tephillin on a clean body lengthens one’s life. (See Jeremiah 38:16 and the Rashi in the Talmud Menachot44b) One should touch the tephillin from time to time while wearing them so as not to take our mind off of them even for a moment. While wearing tephillin one should be humble, G-d fearing and should not be drawn into frivolity or idle talk. They should encourage one to think of words of truth. It is in force everywhere and at every time, for men but not for women.

There is a lot to cover here. Hand tephillin is worn on the bicep of the “weaker” arm. If you are right handed, it is put on the left arm. If you are a leftie, it goes on your right arm. It is affixed right on the bicep and the slipknot is tightened. The long strap is then wound seven times around the lower part of the arm between the elbow and the wrist. The slack is wound around the hand. Then the head tephillin are placed with the knot at the base of the skull and the box just above the hairline (or where the hairline used to be) the knot is fixed so it must be sized for the head of the one who wears it. Both boxes must rest on the body with nothing between the box and the skin/hair. There are two blessings, one for each box as it is placed on the body. There is a third passage that is recited when one winds the straps of the arm tephillin around the hand (after the head tephillin is in place). This strap is wound around the middle finger three times and then worn in a way that spells out the Hebrew word “Shaddai” which is a name for G-d. Tephillin is worn on weekdays and not on Shabbat or Holidays.
The body must be clean lest the dirt create a barrier between the box and the skin. The passages in the boxes are from the Torah and refer to wearing tephillin. When one wears them for the first time it is awkward, but with time, it become very natural. Wearing tephillin slows us down when we pray so that we can concentrate on the words that we are saying. The parchments inside do fade over time and should be checked and repaired once every seven years or so. A Sofer, a scribe who writes a Torah or a mezuzah can repair tephillin as well.
To the Hafetz Hayim, only men wear tephillin, but in the Conservative Movement women can wear tephillin as well. It is not a “one time” decision, however. Women who wish to wear tephillin should commit to wearing it daily for the foreseeable future, and not just to seem fashionable or due to peer pressure. It should remind all wearers of the importance of daily prayer and to help focus on the words that we pray.

Next week: Mitzvah 10: To put fringes on the corners of our garments

Gabriel Greenberg asks: You say that "It is necessary to pray with the focused attention of the heart; one should turn his heart away from every thought, and she should see himself as though standing before the presence of G-d." I'm taking a course this semester in historical trends of Jewish mysticism and this method of "turn(ing) his heart away from every thought" sounds very similar to that of the ecstatic kabbalah practiced by Abraham Abulafia. From what I've learned in this course, Abulafia prescribes a method of meditation in which the first step is clearing the mind of all earthly things. I guess my question is, to what extent have Jewish mystical tendencies influenced the way Jews of all groups (Orthodox, Conservative, and Reformed) pray? I understand that all Hasidic groups are of a mystical bent, but the passage quoted above seems to indicate that all Jews, at least when they are praying, should be aspiring to a mystical "meeting with G-d." Is this the case, or am I misinterpreting some nuances of the lesson?

Rabbi responds: While mainstream Judaism and Kabbalistic Judaism seem to differ over how one should concentrate on the words they pray, both agree that one should focus on the words we pray and not let them become rote. The Sages of the Talmud used to take an hour to warm up to be ready to pray. Abulafia spells out a particularly kabbalistic way to get focused on prayer, but all Jews must learn, in one way or another, to focus their minds and hearts on the words we pray.

Riccardo Di Capua writes: Maybe He does not get anything from our prayers; maybe He does not hear them; maybe He does not even care. The fourth reason is that we pray because man NEEDS to pray, regardless. There is a support website for a particularly cruel disease. One column deals with what the patient can, should, cannot and should not do when stricken by it. The column on the other side of the website deals with the immediate family. Item Number One is "Pray: it will make you feel better." There is no mention of speedy return to health, but rather as you so aptly put it, changes the way the family members live each terrible day.

Rabbi responds: We can never know what G-d gets from our prayers. G-s is so far beyond our conception that it is hard to understand how our finite words can affect an infinite G-d. But as I said and you so ably illustrated, Prayer has the ability to change the way we see the world and our place within it. It is said that President Lincoln, during the battle of Gettysburg, left the situation room at the White House and returned a short time later with his stress greatly reduced. When asked where he went, he is said to have replied, “I went to pray. I told G-d that I had done all I could to save the Union and now it was in His hands. I am not as worried anymore since whatever may happen is G-d’s will”. Did G-d want the Union to be saved? Who knows?! But prayer certainly helped President Lincoln through some hard times.

HMS Volume 2: Number 7 - Mitzvah #7: To Pray to G-d

Halacha L’Moshe MiSinai
Volume 2: Number 7
November 14, 2005
Mitzvah #7: To Pray to G-d

Mitzvah 7
It is a positive commandment to pray every day to G-d.
Hafetz Hayim: Scripture states, “and to serve Him with all your heart.” (Deut. 11:13) What is service of the heart? - Prayer. The commandment is that a person should relate the praises of the Holy One after that he should ask for his needs and after that, he is to give praise and thanks to G-d. It is necessary to pray with the focused attention of the heart; one should turn his heart away from every thought, and she should see himself as though standing before the presence of G-d. He should not produce his prayer like someone who id carrying a burden and throws it down and goes his way. Neither should he pray with a troubled and disturbed mind. It is in force everywhere and at every time, for both men and women.

According to the Hafetz Hayyim, and many other sages, there are three reasons to pray. The first is to accept G-d as the ruler of the universe as well as the sovereign of our life. The second is to be able to ask G-d for that which we need. The third reason is to thank G-d for the many blessings we receive from the Divine hand daily. The three daily prayer services, Shacharit, Mincha and Maariv (Morning, Afternoon and Evening) all contain elements of all three. The Shema is our accepting the sovereignty of G-d, the Amidah is our list of petitions and every blessing we recite is a way of saying thanks for all that G-d does in our life.
Every Sage is also crystal clear that our prayer should not be rote, meaningless or mindless. We need to think about what we are saying and why we are saying it. Prayer is not a burden that we have to bear and we perform grudgingly or when we are distracted. We need to be fully alert to our need to pray, to the words that we pray and to the way in which we say those words. We should consider ourselves as standing face to face with the all-powerful ruler of the universe. That ruler wants to hear from us and we need to speak to G-d. But we cannot be distracted even a little bit lest we show ourselves to be ungrateful and unconcerned. Extending this even further, some sages maintain that EVERY word we speak, even our discussions with our spouse and children, are also words of prayer and we should every moment “Know before Whom we stand” This is not “Big Brother” watching us, nor is it meant to make us guilty or paranoid. It only means that we should consider every moment as if we are standing before G-d and to live our lives accordingly. All that we do is thus a “prayer” to G-d.
This does not mean that we cannot be angry, hurt or disappointed with G-d. We are expected to open our hearts to G-d and pour the pain in our soul into the conversation. Just as we eat when we are hungry, we pray when we are angry, hurt or disappointed. We can yell at G-d if we feel the need to yell. And if life is frustrating or disappointing we can vent our frustration or disappointment to G-d. G-d has big shoulders and can handle our “complaints”
We must also be very careful to thank G-d for the blessings of life, love and health that rain down upon us at every moment. We cannot take such blessings for granted and we must not take G-d for granted in our life. Gratitude is one of the highest forms of prayer and it is suggested that we recite 100 blessings a day. Since each blessing is a way of thanking G-d, it implies that we have no less than 100 reasons to thank G-d daily.
I do not know what G-d gets from our prayers, but I know for certain that prayer can change the way we see our lives and the way we live each day. Don’t say, “I will pray when I have time.” Rather pray first and all the other parts of our life will reap the benefits.

Next week: Mitzvot 8 and 9: To Wear Tephillin

Brenda Horowitz asks: (Concerning Mitzvah 6, emulating G-d) How does this idea mesh with the story of Zusya: "G-d will not ask why I was not as great as Moshe; He will ask why I was not as great as Zusya!" That is, does G-d judge us by how closely we can emulate Him, or by how much we live up to our own potential? (Or are those two things the same?)I reply: The two are really the same. The Sages are quick to point out that one cannot fully replicate all that G-d does in the world. G-d is, after all G-d, and we are only human. We can, at best, only emulate G-d when G-d is “emulating” human beings. If it is good enough for G-d to take the time to do, we should be doing it too. But this implies that we can only do this to the best of our abilities. If we are sick, we may not be able to visit others who are sick. If we are disabled, we may not be able to help bury the dead. G-d will not hold us to account for the things we were not able to do, only for the things we COULD do but did not.

Monday, November 7, 2005

HMS Volume 2: Number 6 - Mitzvah #6: To Walk in G-d’s Ways

Halacha L’Moshe MiSinai
Volume 2: Number 6
November 7, 2005
Mitzvah #6: To Walk in G-d’s Ways

Mitzvah 6
It is a positive commandment to walk in the ways of G-d with all of one’s ability.
Hafetz Hayim: This is based on Deut. 28:9. Our Sages learned (Sifre Devarim, 11:22) That this commandment means: As the Holy One is called gracious, you also be gracious. As the Holy One is called compassionate, you also be compassionate. As the Holy One is described as merciful, you also be merciful. And so with all the qualities by which the Holy One is described: a person needs to model himself after Him and walk in His ways. It applies everywhere, at every time for both men and women.

The Rabbis of the Talmud were very aware of the differences between the divine G-d and the very finite nature of humanity. Is it possible for human beings to be G-d like? Can we walk in the same way that G-d “walks”? We know that this is impossible. We know that as human beings we cannot aspire to be a G-d. So what does this Mitzvah mean?
At the very beginning of the Torah, G-d performs an act of kindness. G-d makes clothing for the naked Adam and Eve before they leave the Garden of Eden. We learn from this that just as G-d makes the effort to clothe the naked, so too we must make the effort to be kind to others by clothing the naked. At the very end of the Torah G-d performs another act of kindness. G-d buries Moses after he has died. There is no one else there to perform this Mitzvah on Moses’ behalf, so G-d buries this great man. Just as G-d makes the effort to bury the dead, so too we must make the effort to see to it that all people have a proper burial regardless of ability to pay.
I can even take this a step further. In the book of Genesis, G-d reveals to Abraham and Sarah that by this time next year, they will be the parents of a baby boy. Abraham and Sarah are not in the same room when this is announced. Sarah hears the announcement and laughs and says to herself, “Not that I am withered, am I to have enjoyment with my husband so old?” While she did not say it aloud, G-d hears her anyway and asks Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh, saying, Shall I in truth bear a child, old as I am?” Sarah, of course, is mortified that G-d has heard her laughter and her slight against her husband, but G-d has deliberately misquoted Sarah’s words so that Abraham will not be embarrassed or hurt by Sarah’s laughter. Just as G-d misquotes (lies?) to create harmony and peace in a home, so too we should be careful to not cause discord between a husband or wife or between parents and children.
We study the Torah, we study the Bible to understand how G-d operates in this finite world, and use G-d’s actions as a template for how we are supposed to act in the world. When we imitate the actions of G-d we show our loyalty and support for G-d. When we make G-d our mentor in life, we will live better, kinder and fuller lives.
Next week: Mitzvah 7: To Pray to G-d

Tuesday, November 1, 2005

HMS Volume 2: Number 7 - Mitzvah #5: Sanctify G-d

Halacha L'Moshe MiSinai
Volume 2: Number 7
November 1, 2005
Mitzvah #5: Sanctify G-d

Mitzvah 5
It is a positive commandment sanctify G-d publicly.
Hafetz Hayim: This is based on Lev. 22:32. This we must do by submitting our life to death if necessary, and with all our might , to make His faith widely known. Thus if others wish to compel someone to turn away from our faith, he should not want at all to listen, but should submit his life to execution on account of this. Neither should he mislead the one compelling him to make him thimk that he has turned heretic, although in his heart he believes in G-d... If he one applying the force means to make him change his faith and it is in public, which means before 10 Jews, then even over any other transgressions, and even if it is not a time of persecution, the even in private he is to accept death sooner than trangress. If idol worship, consanguineous sexual relations or adultery, or bloodshed is involved ( as the act he is being forced to commit) then even in private, even when it is not a time of persecution and even if it is being done for the pleasure of the one forcing him, he is to accept death sooner than transgress. If he is in public and sanctifies the Divine name in public and openly, there is no deed higher than this. This is in force everywhere and at all time for both men and women.

It should be clear already that the term, "sanctify G-d" refers to martyrdom. Unfortunately this is a situation that Jews have found themselves in many time in history and the laws of martyrdom have been refined over the centuries. The Hafetz Hiyyim tries to say in a few words the complexity of these laws, and I will try and explain his thinking by expanding his thoughts.
Many authorities insist that one does not have to give up their life to sanctify the name of G-d. When we live a good, moral life, when we act with kindness to others and treat every person with consideration. When we go out of our way to display acts of compassion and concern, others will look at us and think AThis is the way a Jew behaves, this person is a credit to his or her faith, This person must be in awe of G-d and it must be a special G-d who demands this kind of life from those who are faithful.@ This is one way we are able to sanctify G-d.
We are commanded to give up our life to G-d and not transgress the commandments even if we are under duress when doing so will bring dishonor to G-d. It does not matter if it is in public or private, we must honor G-d and not give those who are cruel and unbelievers support in their misguided philosophies. The only difference is that in public we may not perform acts of dishonor because this may dishearten other Jews and cause them to violate mitzvot. In private we should not perform those acts but even an authority as Miamonidies admits that those who do violate in private should be treated with compassion because we do not really know what we would do if we were in the same position. In times of great peril, as during the Inquisition in Spain, it is permitted to live one life in public and in private, and in our hearts, keep strong our faith and our commitment to a Jewish life.
In three areas we must always die rather than violate these commandments. We must not kill another person to save our lives, we must not engage in forbidden sexual acts or adultery and we must not perform public acts of idolatry. We can not think our blood is redder than the one we are ordered to kill, we must not violate the person of any other person, for they are not less a person than we are, and we must not give public approval to any worship that is against our understanding of G-d. In all three cases, in public or private, we must not violate the law but accept death.
There is no higher mitzvah that to give our life to sanctify the name of G-d. Just remember that sometimes, just by doing the right thing, we can bring honor to G-d without endangering our lives. There is also a negative commandment that is associated with this mitzvah which is to not profane the name of G-d. We can not profane the name of G-d and must always act to sanctify G-d=s name.
Next week: Mitzvah 6: To walk in G-d's ways

Note: Due to the Holidays and Hurricane Wilma, there has been a hiatus of these lessons. I am happy to report that all is well, now, with me and my family and our damage is minimal. With G-d's help we will be able to get these messages out without further interruption.